Hi. I have been married for 25 years and was diagnosed on Monday with high risk hpv. My husband stopped having sex with me about 2 years ago and I began having an affair with a man who recently disclosed that he has been having sex with someone else. My husband was my first sexual partner and my lover was my 2nd.
I'm a mess over this diagnosis. I have to tell my husband. I told my now ex-lover and now I have to tell my husband.
Thank you for letting me vent. Any thoughts, suggestions would be welcome.
consistent21
First and foremost don’t punish yourself, and society for the rules and regulations you maybe persuaded to believe that if you were to have stayed at with your husband and try to mend something damaged that you could’ve avoided contracting HPV. However of what we felt realize it was 80 percent of Americans have HPV and going treated because they don’t have any symptoms of the disease or infection or whatever you’d like to call it. Second i’m sorry for your diagnosis I know exactly how you feel. However my situation slightly different I was In a new relationship with a man that I met over the Internet he seem to be so perfect he worked his own place very respectful take me out on dates... A little that I know he had five kids and a baby mama that he lived with. Who he believed was cheating on him so he decided to return the favor in doing so he delivered a virus to me. The point of the story is it doesn’t matter t A little that I know he had five kids and a baby mama that he lived with. Who he believed was cheating on him so he decided to return the favor in doing so he delivered a virus to me. The point of the story is I do not blame yourself completely. Or feel the stress of coming Out to your husband we are humans and we are erroneous. I wish you the best of luck
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