Liars Anonymous Community Group

A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!

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Edd
Edd

I  just joined,  hoping for much needed help with my lying.  I lie alot. About big thing,  little things etc. My fiancé has put up with alot.  Much more than anyone else would've.  I'm so much  in love with her. I'm afraid my lying has ruined us permanently.  I lie even when there's no need to lie.  Most of the time I feel I lie just to not anger her but my lies always make the situation worse.  Please help me.  

tacotome
tacotome
You are not alone, I am exactly the same way.. Except with my wife who just found out about everything and I believe I may have ruined it as well!
katmccord
katmccord
You can get better. It takes time, commitment, and patience, but you can do it!
Include your partner in your recovery. Set small goals. Practice telling the truth by telling your partner something they didn't know about you every day. Spend time in conversation and think before you speak.
Last, I recommend journaling EVERYTHING that you do as you do it for a week and show it to your partner daily. This should include brief explanations of feelings throughout the day too.
That's what has helped me anyway.
Best of luck!