Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
Bettermyself81
I'm new to this stuff. I'm also starting to accept the fact that I'm a compulsive liar. I don't know when I began but I now I have lied about a lot of things. If it were to make me feel better or be cooler or get out of trouble I just did. Now it's all coming back around at full force and has ruined my marriage of 7 years. She just wants to be in my life but I keep her shut out with lies after lies. Now I'm gonna lose the best thing in my life.
domingo0022
Hey my friend. I know how you feel. I have lied my wife recently and have made many excuses. Thankfully, she has forgiven me, but the pain has caused her to not believe me sometimes. Today, I was caught lying again, but instead of hiding it, I told her the truth straight away without fear. I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage and I pray that there is healing in it. You've come to the right place to be open and we are here to help in any way
Bettermyself81
Thank you domingo. I wish my wife would forgive me but I'm sure its hard for her to do that after all the lies I have made. I cant blame her for that one bit cause I haven't been the most trusting person in the world to her. I am glad I have started here. I hope it can make me a better person for my kids and me and possible be able to make my ex-wife feel a little better about things. I hope we all can feel better for ourselves and make our loved ones life more happy.
domingo0022
Yes. Admitting there is a problem is the first and most important step. I pray that trust gets restored and that healing will begin :-)
Bettermyself81
Thanks again Domingo I wish I could get the trust back and my wife also but she has told me she well never truly trust me again. I have lied and deceived her for so long that I can't really blame her but it's hurts so much now that I can see the major errors of my ways and the harm I have done to someone so wonderful. Even last night when I came home I almost lied to her but I tried really hard and didnt. I'm glad for that but it still doesn't make up for all the rest.
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