Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
This my first post in a long time. I now know that u have to stop lying to yourself. I have lied most of my life and then 3 years ago it all unfolded. I have had many conversations with my partner and also have had some counselling. My lack of self confidence made me talk myself up to create an image that was false and through this I believed that other people especially females made me feel special This led to getting over familiar with them and then keeping it from my partner. I am now trying very hard not to lie about myself and have had a little bit of success. But I know it is a long hard road. My partner has supported me through all this and I have to repay her with honesty and integrity. Is there any advice that may assist me through this difficult process?
So figure out what the root cause of all of this is. Maybe ask yourself what is it about lying that feels so good? what is it about getting attention from other people that feels so good? then ask yourself why, and try and figure out if there is a fear there or some sort of insecurity or maybe some past negative memory is coming up for you.
you can do this! we all need to figure out our root problems. So little problems like lying don't find their way into our lives.