Hello all. My name is Michael and I am a liar. I lie about stuff that doesn't even matter. The last lie that I told was to my wife about a haircut. I told her I drove past the barber absent mindedly and didn't feel like turning around. In actuality, I stopped at the bank near the barber, got cash, saw that it was too crowded and left. She didn't even ask me about my hair and I felt the need to make up some story. I have had some counseling in the past and knew I should of said that I lied and immediately told the truth. That is REALLY hard to do. She checked the bank account the next morning and saw that I had withdrawn money near the barber and knew I had lied. We are currently very strained and she does not want to talk to me because she can't believe a word I say. This is just the tip of the iceberg and stems from infidelity on my part about 8 years ago. It has been an uphill battle ever since. I will do well for a while and then I relapse and one lie causes a tremendous backslide. I am at a loss for what to do now. I am reaching out for help from peers as I have found that professional therapists have not worked for me. Just looking for help. My wife says "just stop lying" but I hope you all realize that is easier said than done. Thanks for listening and I look forward to any advice.