Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
My marriage is hanging on by a thread and this is the third time I have wrecked the trust. I'm trying to show her I will grow up and be the man she needs me to be, and it is falling on deaf ears. I offered to day that we should take a break for a month, so we can get some space, and I can show her I can change by managing my life on my own. Is this a good idea? I'm not sure what else I can do.
I'm going through something similar with my girlfriend right now. She didn't stay with me for a week. That week killed me and I realized how much I wanted to be with her. During that week I started making changes. I started to eat healthier, running/walking every night, and journaling. Do I think it's working for me? I think so. But my girlfriend wants to see the actions because those mean more then my words. I try to do every little thing for her that she likes. I've also come clean with everything. I have faith that this will work out. I really do. I think it's all about how much you love her. If you love her more then anything, then love wins and it finds a way. I hope it works out for you. Keep us updated.