Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
Hi, I’ve just joined this group recently because I don’t know what to do. I’ve been lying to my wife constantly about our financial situation and I can’t seem to stop. Right now we are very much in the rocks and I love her so much with all my heart. I’ve racked up uncecessaru debts and lied about it. Ruined our credits and I really don’t know what to do. She is my entire world. We can never seem to talk about it without fighting and right now we’re not talking at all. Anyone have any thoughts on how I can better myself but also work to mending the relationship with my wife.
But there is a start to a journey of recovery, which is to admit that you are helpless, which requires insight and admittance. For a long time, I followed the pattern of thought "I will not do it again, I have full control", which was lying to myself. Afterwards, I followed a twelve step approach with the guidance of a therapist.
It is a lot of work, but it is worth doing it.