Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
My wife divorced me May 17, 2017 that had to be one of the worse days of my life after 18yrs & 4 kids later. I never thought she would divorce me but she proved me wrong. Her words were im tired of the lies lies lies and at this point its so true. I've caused her so much pain and my childern. I found myself after my divorce induliging in the very things that caused me problems in the first place and that was lying and women. Im 47yrs. old and this has to stop but i must trust God and rely on his strength. I have a long way to go to prove to my exwife that i have changed.
Like you, I also lost a good woman who simply got tired of my behavior.
With that said - I can tell you two things ...
1. I DO NOT HAVE ANY OF THE ANSWERS - I'm on this forum just like you, trying to figure myself out. Why I have done what I've done and most importantly, to learn from the errors in my ways to ensure is doesn't happen again. You, my new friend - seem to be making the right decisions now - simply because you're also on here and sharing - which is NOT easy to do. So as I mentioned above, I commend that effort.
2. You, like me - probably know this by now and that is that YOU cannot do this alone. Utilizing this support forum is single handlely - one of the best choices you (and I and everyone on here) has Made. Stay the course, continue to work on areas of yourself that you feel need improvement and before you know it, you're going to be (as I hope to also be) the men we were always meant to be or our women believed we WERE/would be.
I wish you nothing but healthy, honest growth ahead my friend.
A Jedi Lie Am I