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ck80211
ck80211
Im heartbroken.I loved my ex so much and always will. I F'd up. I told lies about my service...the truth is I was a corpsman in the Navy for 2 yrs 28 days and less than 12 hours. I loved her and shes the only woman I ever loved. my lies were about covering up my shame. I feel like the 3 years we were together...she lied to me too and wont admit anything. How do you go from soulmates and best friends to...refusing to speak other than harsh words?
I keep trying to apologize...but im at the point of giving up and never wanted to even feel that. shes pushed me away. One moment shes not ready to be with me or anyone...then shes dating and ripping my heart to shreds.
My best friend hates me and I don't know what thr real truth is anymore and I question everything as she questioned me. This is the darkest moment of my life. and I will never post here again, as I want to go back home to Texas and rebuild my life from the ruined remains in Ohio. Im fighting and drowning. im done. The love of my life ...I meant nothing to her. It seems we had 2 different relationships I loved her and she lied to me about everything
margueriteh
margueriteh
so, it sounds like you lies. you better say your sorry to God. He will punish you and I don't mean a little, he hates the liars of this world. now, good bye. and don't let me catch you lying again to us about your stint in the navy there in ohio.
mikeyrg
mikeyrg
The betrayal is to look someone directly in the eye and lie. I too am dealing with rejection although the lie is trivial. It doesn't matter. If you can tell a trivial lie looking directly into someone's eye how can they believe you on anything. This is what we are dealing with. Don't give up. Move forward. let's commit to growth. We can be better. We have to choose to change. Every day one day at a time.
margueriteh
margueriteh
I wanted to add that that is the lie of military life also. how many of you canl tell the truth about what you are doing? I mean for jobs?
I feel so sorry for you because I was in the military myself, and now they won't even acknowledge that I was in.

I hate to say this, but I was dumbm in addition to being a liar. I trusted that there would be money on the other side. that never came through. the cheaters oe this world stole my money, and so , yes, it has come to this. I was so poor that I had to move in mom and dad after the life, and then, I became part of the cheater system, that was gearing up to make fools of us who were overseas and living the life, and then came hom to the comfort of mommy and daddy, and were liars to themselves about the skills that they really had. I couldn't tell the truth. I thought that I was telling the truth, but I was lying. and I tried to love a man who was a liar, and then I began lying too. I guess that is how it was. lie upon lie.

now I lie so much I am a horny joke to the world.