So my wife and I have been together for almost 9 years, we met when I 18 and she had just turned 24. She was my first true love and continues to amaze me with the love and compassion she exudes. There is only one minor issue that has recently come up in our marriage. Just the other day she approached me and mentioned that she wanted to start binding her chest and eventually, possibly get top surgery done. I have been doing my best to be supportive and I do only want her to be happy so I have been trying to continue the conversation. I had been asking if she feels that she was born in the wrong body or if am I using the wrong pronouns and so on but I have been encountering a wall. I feel that she is just telling me what I want to hear because she knows that I really am attracted to females and femininity. And to be honest if it continued onward and went onto hormone therapy and being refered to as male I am not sure if I can handle it, but I really seriously hope I can... I do not want to be unsupportive, but I am not attracted to masculinity of any kind really and it has been causing my panic attacks to come back. But at the same time I am still very inlove with my wife and want help changing my minset/worries because if my wife is really my husband, they are still at their core the person I fell inlove with. Anyone else had experience with this or have words of advice for me. please no rude comments, this is just all so new to me.