Chronic diseasePosted on 10/17/09, 09:42 am
I am 27 years old and have been living with lympedema of both feet for the past 12 years. This is a condition that results from either chemotherapy or either one is born with it. I was born with under developed lymph system and that has resulted in the swelling of both of my feet and legs and it causes pain. Being a woman at that age with this condition has made my dating life sooo difficult. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 years ago because of my condition and have not dated ever since. I wonder if anyone will ever like me and knowing that i will be like that for the rest of my life ,it is killing,. I am so lonely everyone needs someone to love. The thought of starting a family one day scares because preganancy makes the condition worse. Is any one out there going through the same.
This condition had such a huge impact in my life. I feel like there is a void from within. My friends of the same age are either married or in a stable relationships.
How do i use the law of attraction to concentrate on the positive side of life.
Thank you for listening.
I am 27 years old and have been living with lympedema of both feet for the past 12 years. This is a condition that results from either chemotherapy or either one is born with it. I was born with under developed lymph system and that has resulted in the swelling of both of my feet and legs and it causes pain. Being a woman at that age with this condition has made my dating life sooo difficult. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 years ago because of my condition and have not dated ever since. I wonder if anyone will ever like me and knowing that i will be like that for the rest of my life ,it is killing,. I am so lonely everyone needs someone to love. The thought of starting a family one day scares because preganancy makes the condition worse. Is any one out there going through the same.
This condition had such a huge impact in my life. I feel like there is a void from within. My friends of the same age are either married or in a stable relationships.
How do i use the law of attraction to concentrate on the positive side of life.
Thank you for listening.
i am praying that u will be healed 100%!!
i also recommend a book i just recently found in barnes and noble in the personal development section called:
"The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind" By Dr. Joseph Murphy
its an awesome book and teaches you how to change how your thinking and feeling. im half way through it and i am so glad i bought it!
i truly believe u will reach your true potential!
jeep dreaming big! hugs
http://books.google.com/books?id=WJe_P8zc5NAC&dq=%22The+Power+Of+Your+Subconscious+Mind%22+By+Dr.+Joseph+Murphy&printsec=frontcover&source=bn&hl=en&ei=IGvaSqXhGJOuMIOckd4H&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=4&ved=0CCEQ6AEwAw#v=onepage&q=%22The%20Power%20Of%20Your%20Subconscious%20Mind%22%20By%20Dr.%20Joseph%20Murphy&f=false
you are doing so so awesome!!
hugs
Now this may sound controversial so please do read with an open mind. I do not doubt that you have a very real and painful condition in your feet, i also have problems with my feet and legs which has caused me so much agony for the past 2 years. However, learning about the LOA and watching the film The Secret, learning about EFT and also reading the book 'You Can Heal Your Life' by Louise Hay is making me re-evaluate my whole life, including my health problems.
Pain in the legs and feet, according to Louise Hay, is caused by a fear of facing the future, of not wanting to move forward, and when i look at events that happened to me 2 years ago, and that i am still struggling with, i can accept this, even though i have a very real diagnosis. But since accepting this and using EFT to start working on things i have greatly reduced my pain levels, and anxiety levels too. I know i have been unable to move forward, and now i am working on changing things, and recognising i can move forward, this is helping to reduce the pain.
Louise Hay can speak with authority on this subject; she was diagnosed with vaginal cancer in her 50's, now no-one can say that that is not a very real condition, one of the worst, because cancer kills. However, Louise considered that this condition was related to her history of having been sexually abused and raped at a young age. So she started working on her psyche about these events, she took notice of the emotions this caused her, and she learned to forgive, not going to the perpetrators and telling them she forgave, but in her own mind she forgave them and she forgave herself, and she continued to release the negative emotions she had carried around for all those years. 6 months later she was given the all-clear of the cancer, without medical intervention, she had no chemo or radiotherapy, no drugs and no surgery. And the cancer has never returned.