Infidelity Community Group
This group is for people who have been through infidelity. How to heal and move on with or without the other person.
i started this group because I am need of support and there is so much of this going on that others out there also are feeling the pain.
Its a very long story, but to make it short. I am remarried to the same person who years ago played many head games, lies, cheated many times. Manipulate me. I could go on but I’m sure you get the message.
Well almost remarried to him for 3 years, he’s up to it again. I am so heartbroken. I know, I should have never trusted him. He keeps saying he doesn’t want to loose us, but he doesn’t act like it.
How do I find the courage to move on. I did and was doing really well, but he has destroyed it.
How and what do I do? Please can I get some comments.
Thank you
I’m wondering how you are doing now and what you decided?
I just can’t believe that he felt that our marriage was so bad that he needed a divorce. Why does he have such issues with women. Better yet, why can’t I just choose them right?
He isn’t here now. He is living with his sisters until it’s final which is 5-6 hours away.
Then he says he doesn’t know where he is going. He has a cousin that lives in Florida. And he and I always wanted to live there that was our plan. Guess he’ll be living our dream without me.
I am beyond devastated! I’ve lost 30lbs. I cry all the time. I am worried how I am going to financially survive.
2 years ago he inherited a million and had me quite my job. So we were going to go on the road. But we hadn’t done yet because we had grandkids come along and I wanted to get to know them. So we put it off. Guess I found out later he wasn’t happy about that either.
So now I am sitting. What do I do? All the money is his because it’s HIS inheritance not mine.
I am a mess. I sometimes think I should have just let him live his double life. I would at least have him here and not worry about money. But I am so heartbroken. I miss him so much.