Infertility, Secondary Support Group
"Secondary infertility" is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Apart from various medical conditions (e.g. hormonal), this may come as a result of age and stress felt to provide a sibling for their first child.
Hello i am new here.
My name is Lucy, i am 33 years old and i look for anykind of advice.
and here is my story:
i am married since 11 years and since 6 years we tried so hard to have a baby. now i am pregnant 11 weeks. i sould be happy right? but...
i caught my husband cheating. now he told me he rather wants to be with her ( he is 36 she is 21 ) and i have to move out of our house AND THAT I SHOULD ABORT OUR CHIILD!!!! we tried everyhing to get pregnant. i cant understand how he can be so cold now after everything we been throu! ( i took care of his mom when she had cancer !!!) i am so afraid!!! even he never layed hands on me i am so afraid he will hurt me somehow that i will lose my baby. i cry day and night. i dont
know what to do anymore...i just feel powerless and sad. thanks for any advice.
God bless you
My name is Lucy, i am 33 years old and i look for anykind of advice.
and here is my story:
i am married since 11 years and since 6 years we tried so hard to have a baby. now i am pregnant 11 weeks. i sould be happy right? but...
i caught my husband cheating. now he told me he rather wants to be with her ( he is 36 she is 21 ) and i have to move out of our house AND THAT I SHOULD ABORT OUR CHIILD!!!! we tried everyhing to get pregnant. i cant understand how he can be so cold now after everything we been throu! ( i took care of his mom when she had cancer !!!) i am so afraid!!! even he never layed hands on me i am so afraid he will hurt me somehow that i will lose my baby. i cry day and night. i dont
know what to do anymore...i just feel powerless and sad. thanks for any advice.
God bless you
eachnewday
I really feel for you and hope u find a solution.in the meantime it may be wise to seek advice from citizens advice bureau,shelter or if u fear for your saftey nub a charity for women in you situation may b able to help.All the best x
lulucy
I try to visit my grandmother and help her a bit while I try to fix a life all alone. I told him that I abort. Of course I did not! That's why I don't have much time to get away from him. Still. It's not easy to leave a whole life, job, friends, my mother behind me only to have a child. Don't get me wrong I know it will be worth it. It's just all so frustrating .and my grandma is old and sick .she probably won't make it too long. So I am worried to loose my child with all that stress... You know...it's not the first time :-(
lulucy
Thank you for your nice words. God bless you. :-*
carebear3812
Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry to hear you are going thru that!!! I see your post was a few months ago, I hope by this time you are doing much better. I can't believe that. How are you??
iris83
I can't even fathom what you are going through! There should be some sort of advocacy agency in your area which will help you find a safe place for you. As hard as it sounds, try to reduce your stress since it isn't good on the baby. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs!!
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