hello shur, good evening. Its been quiet sometime since I logged on to DS. I am reading some of these messages now and I hope God gives strength to you handling all these situation. I had gone to visit my mom and sisters and while leaving them, I just was feeling heaviness in my heart and praying that God shows his grace upon my mom and sisters. My prayers that God sends you too with his warm grace. God help us all of the caregivers.
Regards,
bh

There has been some positive changes since my last post come to find out that the bipap that we were using had a missing part on the face mask I had no idea we used all the parts that were in the box apparently there was a part missing which resulted in mom having major leaks that went up to 98 percent I struggled with this for months I even called them two times in hopes of getting some answers. Any ways when I finally went into the sleep lab with the equipment she noticed the part was missing we erased all the data that was recorded during this time and started over with the therapy since the data was inaccurate. Anyways she has made great strides and is thinking more clearly and awake pretty much during the day what a wonderful change...

The best part is her readings this morning was 19 percent leakage which is excellent reading and her ahi is down to 6.9. When before it was 29. I am sharing this that maybe some one will learn by my mistakes.


God bless
Bh glad that you were able to travel to see sis and mom I am sure sis was so happy to see you and welcomed your help in all that you could give to her. Trust in god he never leaves us and answers our most deepest concerns right when we think all has failed god bless....

Hello shur, Its great you feeling better regarding your mom's bipap. My prayers hope it will help your mom better. Thanks for ur soothing message too about my mom and sisters..my sisters ,mom and I we were all happy being able to be together. My sister was saying to spend all the time with mom since we never know what happens tomorrow kind of thing. Sorry to bug u..Thansk for your message again. I just hope God gives energy to my sis and mom and also other sisters also. my prayres to you,ur mom and all the other family also. Yes..I am also feeling and hoping God is with us all the time. I know it is difficult t take care of yourself but I hope u will be able to rest yourself also. take care again, shur.
Regards,
bh.

Bh i have resigned myself into gods hands as I know I cannot save her only make her days comfortable as possible. I know days will be filled with disappointments and moments of pure love and joy. I no longer pine for the old days and all the things we use to do together when she was filled with energy and healthy. But despite these obstacles we still find moments of tenderness and love beyond anything I could have imagined I am so glad that I did not run From all the fears that consumed me in the beginning of this journey. I pray that you and your sister are filled with gods love and given the strength that you need to get through this journey. Just remember one thing "Love endures all things" and when we have given all that we can give to the last drop we will not be left empty god promises he will not leave us empty.he will fill,our hearts with his love....

This I know he did not leave a empty hole in my heart when my father passed he filled my heart and did not leave me empty.....trust in him ........

God bless

Bh i have resigned myself into gods hands as I know I cannot save her only make her days comfortable as possible. I know days will be filled with disappointments and moments of pure love and joy. I no longer pine for the old days and all the things we use to do together when she was filled with energy and healthy. But despite these obstacles we still find moments of tenderness and love beyond anything I could have imagined I am so glad that I did not run From all the fears that consumed me in the beginning of this journey. I pray that you and your sister are filled with gods love and given the strength that you need to get through this journey. Just remember one thing "Love endures all things" and when we have given all that we can give to the last drop we will not be left empty god promises he will not leave us empty.he will fill,our hearts with his love....

This I know he did not leave a empty hole in my heart when my father passed he filled my heart and did not leave me empty.....trust in him ........

God bless

God bless you shur for everything you doing and all your care and concern. your message fills my heart with love and nice feelings. I am happy to read your message..I read your message gain and again so I feel better. your words are filled with wisdom and compassion. my prayers again for you and your mom. your mom is lucky to have u. I only hope my sisters also feel fine with the caregiving journey. It feels so nice reading your message shur that God is ensuring you feel peace in ur heart..thats amazing. you are a blessing to ur family and others like me also. Have a nice blessed evening shur. Mya God bestow peace for all the caregivers in their journeys. my prayers to u again. I should also learn to surrender myself completely onto God.
Regards,
bh

My prayers are with you. I was a caregiver to my mom too and no one knows what you go through unless they walk A MILE IN YOUR SHOES. I also will pray that GOD gives you the strength you need to be able to get through all of this. if you need to talk, please contact me. tc laura

Thank you Laura for your kind words and most of all your prayers
It's 1:00am and I have still not gone to bed yet as I am having problems with moms bipap leaking air
I have been battling this for some time now and reordered medical replacements but they keep sending me the wrong item. So here I am hoping to get a handle on this problem tonight so I can get some sleep.

God bless

I feel for you, I really do. It's so very hard when we take care of our parents and see them going downhill. I will pray to GOD that he gives you the strength you need to get you through this. I am HERE for you just contact me on email any time you need to talk. tc laura