So atm I have a fuck buddy, whom I fuck about 3x a week, it'd be more frequent but frankly when we aren't fucking he wants to be all over me like a rash and that drives me insane! The sex is fantastic - hence me having to bite my tongue. It goes to show how far I will go for a good fuck! Madness.
Anyhoo..I'm thinking of getting another one? I figure I could have each of them 3x a week that way I'm only doing 1 day without sex a week.
However, I don't know if I'm slipping in to mania a tad? I'm noticed that I've become really impulsive the last few days and I cannot control myself when I'm like this. I mentioned the above idea to a friend and her reaction wasn't what I expected; she was disgusted (how original!) and said that I was playing with fire. Okay so the guys in question are friends, but they aren't even talking to each other right now - what's the big deal??!?!? We are all adults. It isn't like I'm dating either of them so what is the problem?
Anyhoo..I'm thinking of getting another one? I figure I could have each of them 3x a week that way I'm only doing 1 day without sex a week.
However, I don't know if I'm slipping in to mania a tad? I'm noticed that I've become really impulsive the last few days and I cannot control myself when I'm like this. I mentioned the above idea to a friend and her reaction wasn't what I expected; she was disgusted (how original!) and said that I was playing with fire. Okay so the guys in question are friends, but they aren't even talking to each other right now - what's the big deal??!?!? We are all adults. It isn't like I'm dating either of them so what is the problem?
*Sigh* back to square one......
I completely agree with your comments though, Ev.
Bummer.
i think if you need a shag, you need a shag theres always going to be someone out there willing to give you a hand. i think with this guy being your ex's mate etc, it's his decision it's not like you're doing this to hurt him it's completely seperate they are just connected somehow. anyway if your ex has an issue he should take it up with his mate not you.
it is slightly worrying however that you think you're becomming manic, maybe chat to your doctor about it, as long as you're being safe and know who you're going with, know that they're not going to be dodgy etc ! then i think just do what you gotta do to get by. we all got needs, some more than others ! x