I think it is very important to love again. There are certainly many people around us who need love. Any love. I don't mean "get freaky", I mean love people like you did before you lost your spouse. Even potential suitors. Set the boundaries to love them. Treat them like you would your best friend. Appreciation, consideration, respect and honor. I am very spiritual. There is nothing better to me than to make somebody else smile, or warm their heart.
In order to do this, we must set ourselves aside. Give love and you will get love in return. It's a great pay out!
I believe that it is all we need....... To give love.