HOPEFUL HEARTS...LIVING AGAIN AFTER THE LOSS Community Group
We are a group of people who have grieved the loss of a spouse, partner, or lover and are searching for a life without our mate. Some looking for their own identity as an individual or finding a life for themself. Some looking for companionship or a serious relationship with someone new. And some just feeling lost and unsure. We offer encouragement, support and virtual...
My husband was so handy around the house and took good care of maintenance issues and all the yard work. I hired a gardener a few months after he passed, and he cuts the grass and that is about it, and I trim and weed. Also, my neighbor gave me the name of her repairman and that has worked out when I need help. At first, it was very difficult for me to handle these issues, but if I don't do it, it will not get done. So whatever needs fixing, I deal with it and get it fixed. So have come a long way in the past two years. One lady in my old support group said not to live your life in fear, so I try to remember that when something goes out of whack here.
But look at it this way: at least you will have something to show for your money.
I have had a couple of months where my lawyer bills were $30,000/mo. I kid you not. And nothing to show for it.
It is beyond ridiculous. Whoever wants to sue you can, and you have to fight it, or you lose.
So enjoy your new, fixed stuff at least.