I'm jumping in and meeting someone. Haven't decided yet where, but it will be at the park, coffee shop, during the day. I met him online, he's a widower, for 5 years. I messaged him through the site, and we exchanged phone numbers. He called and we talked for about an hour. He lives an hour away, and is on disability, from complications from a bypass surgery. I think people our age, all have some type of health problems, and his aren't that bad, but he couldn't do his regular job anymore. He was a machinist and couldn't stand that long, and can't bend over, for any period of time, or he gets dizzy.
I googled him, and found out a few things about him, and where he lives. He owns a house in a rural area, with about 3 arces. He has 2 kids, and 6 grandkids. I will be careful, and after I leave him, I'll go shopping or somewhere else, besides going home. I'll keep you all posted.