My boyfriend has a drinking problem. we have been together almost a year. He is not a hardcore alcoholic but he drinks almost every day. He has a job and he works 12 hour days. So I don't think he can quite be labeled an alcoholic but I'm afraid he is on that path. I am struggling to survive every day because I am struggling with severe anxiety and depression. I also supposedly have Borderline Personality Disorder. I cannot leave him because I know I will become very suicidal. Also, I have no where to live if I do. I have posted on sites like this before asking for advice and everyone told me I should just "leave that abusive asshole" I cannot handle hearing that right now because it makes me very depressed. I want to try to make this relationship work so please, no sarcasm or rude comments. He does have his good qualities when he is sober. His drinking is the only problem in our relationship. I need advice on where to go from here....how do you get someone as stubborn as him to admit he has a problem?? He absolutely denies he has ANY kind of addiction to alcohol. He even says it is GOOD for him, which is ridiculous. I know I want to stay with him so please respect that decision and offer advice on how to heal our relationship. I know couple's counseling will help so I am going to make an appointment for that. I am just so scared about whats going to happen next.
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