U not alone my friend!
Repressed anger is something I deal with and I believe there are many who suffering with this. Some turn it inward, others outward and hurt others...I think healing from this takes much work... I not know how. Coping mechanism to handle anger for me take long walk until body and brain get out of fight or flight mode.

I think the people are out there I Just don't know if they are logging in or checking anything. I have noticed since the removal of the chat client, most come when they need assistance and then are gone shortly there after. That said, they always come back. As for coping, I tend to go and meditate and consider what it is that is bothering me. Once I have focused on it and faced it, then I can make it mine and use it how I want. That's about the only way I know how to cope with things.

sometimes people are just so busy in their life that they don't check or come online. I am sure some do come online but don't want to post or reply trying to make themselves invisible and I have done that as well. Chat thing was good but then it didn't force people to post their topics and groups were suffering with inactivity and I think they disabled the chat for some reason. It was something I read from the admin a long time ago, almost over a year or 2 ago, not sure what. I know they tried to bring that on again and it didn't work and was crashing. I don't like how they have ads on the side based on the most recent search like the browser remembers and shoves it in this site. I hope they get rid of this as Its more of a nuisance more then anything else.
coping skills vary from person to person, what works for one may not work for the other. Having said that I think anger can be tamed but it takes patience and lot of time to analyze and think about it.

Better late than never....he he...I just recently went through a tough spot with anger and had to face several key facts about it for me. I'm a "people pleaser" and don't want to rock the boat. So, in the past, if people made me angry, I found some way to twist it around and make it my fault. This caused a lot of self-loathing and lots of churning in my belly whenever I had to be in their presence. I have now learned to analyse the anger and see if it is a natural response to a real hurt. If so, I usually speak up or yell....depends on how P.O.'d I am. My folks brought me up to never express anger because you usually got a back-hander from whoever was handy. My analyst says that expressing anger is a good way to sort out differences and work through problems, as long as no one is threatened or abusive. Most of the people I'm angry with are long since dead and expressing my anger was done by writing letters and reading them out loud. Then destroying them. If you can read them aloud at a grave site...even better. Now, I also ask for what I need. People aren't mind readers and if I need something, it's best to just say so and take it from there. These were tough lessons for me to learn.