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Password sharing

Oney
Oney
How about it when your boyfriend tells you to exchange e-mail account passwords? Will you say no? Will you trust your private affairs to your boyfriend? I mean you trust him absolutely right? Will he deal with your rejection to do share that information?

I have heard lots of stories of guys whose lives have been torn apart by vindictive ex-boyfriends with all the passwords and all the wrong intentions...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'd definitely say no, he has no place to ask that in my opinion.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'd certainly say no. That's a major invasion of privacy. Feeling that I need that much access to my bf's personal private life is a big red warning sign that the relationship is heading for disaster.

Those horror stories... I rather call them consequences of dumb decisions. You do not share your password, period. I am with my husband for 8 years now, married for 2, and don't even know what he has in his drawer, leave alone his email password. Don't want to know, more important, I don't need to know.

1. If your boyfriend is going to cheat on you, he's going to do it regardless of how much access to his personal stuff you have.

2. Same thin goes for you, if you;re going to cheat on your boyfriend...

3. In a healthy relationship, people are together BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO BE TOGETHER, not because one of them has no other choice because he's being monitored and controlled.
L8bloomer
L8bloomer
Amen
deleted_user
deleted_user
if you trust someone you do not need to know passwords you trust that they are doing what they should

really now my emails are not exciting dang please bitch

LOL for one my bfs emails are very boring and all work related