I have struggling with not going through my boyfriends mail, email, phone and etc. I trust that he wont cheat on me and for the most part I can say that he is not lying to me, but on the other hand I always have to know what is going on and what he has been doing. I ask all the time none stop. It seems like I am trying to catch him in a lie whenever there isn't even a lie there. Really what can I do to help out on this matter, because when he and I first got together I didn't do anything like this. So please please help me!! We have been together for five months now, and he hasn't ever given me a reason to not trust him, all he has done is get drunk one night when he promised he wouldn't.