Generally upbeat and optimistic. However, I'm now in my 40s and find I'm in a strange situation. Pretty much all of my friends have "disappeared" due to (a) spouse, (b) kids and (c) busy job/life.  I don't have kids.  Even though I’ve certainly tried, I also have no spouse/relationship.  I’m looking for a guy, but to be honest I don’t think guys treat each other very well.  Guys do not communicate well at all, and for some odd reason guys don’t want to be the first to express any sort of interest, and they seem to cringe whenever the concept of commitment comes up LOL.  I guess it’s genetic.  I don’t know…I have no problem with it and I’m definitely a male.  At this point all I really want to find is one or a few good male friends who might understand what the heck I’m talking about.  Friends/brother type relationship at this point is way more important than getting into a relationship. If that happens, fine, but at this point I don’t expect it. 

Happy to talk to anyone feeling good bad or lonely on this site, but mostly looking for dudes in a similar situation or any guy wanting friends.  It’s extremely hard to make good male friends and I don’t know why.

Statswise (if that matters) I’m male in mid 40s, very “normal” whatever that means, workout and do some sport almost every day, pretty much perfect nutrition and in great health, very personable and social.  But my personal life pretty much sucks ha ha.  Hope to meet some good people out there.  Thanks.