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I am Fourteen and i want to be male

ChristianGRIMM
ChristianGRIMM

i found out that i didn't feel right as female at age 5 and since then i never felt right as a girl, i would always pretend to be a guy and tell other kids i was a guy but as puberty kicked in i stopped and... I felt i had to come to turms with being a girl. I never really liked looking feminen so i always wore baggy boyish clothes to hide my breasts and I always wore four to five bra's to hide them but know i've come to turms with the fact that I don't wanna be a female and latly i have spiraled into a deep deression and started having suicidal thoughts and i have cut but I promesed my big sister i wouldn't do it anymore, she already knows about my journey to become male and is very acepting with that but i cant say the same for my other sister and my mother.

Crybaby6758
Crybaby6758
Hello. i'm 13 and want to be male. i too have bad depression. i come from an abusive home so coming out soon is out of the picture. my parents are hardcore converted jews so they force me to wear female close. i have 6 siblings and im the second oldest. i practically raise my younger ones. i dont have too much of a relationship with my parents or my older sister. none of them know yet. only friend of mine does. but enough about me. My whole life i've helped the kids who where hurting at school or on the internet. and let me say this, the people in your life that matter wont care and the people who have a problem with it wont matter. people will love you out there. you've made it this far so you can go farther. be happy for you. and if your not ready thats fine. just know that if you pretend to be someone ur not ur gonna end up with the wrong people. just take baby steps. and hardships will come along with it. but think about how strong you are. never think ur weak becuz you've made it here. and you will continue to fight. no matter what. life is too short. and ending it isnt the answer. think of all the people you would hurt. god put u through this storm for a reason. and who gives a fuck about what people think. "god doesnt make mistakes". he doesnt. its not ur fault. and dont think it ever is. you've made it here and you can make it farther. an unhappy life isnt a life worth living. and that doesnt mean end it. it means fight for that happiness. because you are stronger than most people out there. know you're loved.
friendlyNcrazy
friendlyNcrazy
I'm 16 and everywhere I went people thought I was a boy and I loved it! If I was with my mum she'd just go with it. But my dad would correct them and I'd go red. I had the nickname Eric when I was younger I even wrote it as my name on some of my school books. When puberty hit I was f*cking devastated and hated mybody. I still do. I wore sports bras most of the time to hide them. Now I wear sports bra/binders. And I've always wore boys clothes and still do. I was paid £30 by my dads wife to get my year 6 school photo took wearing a school summer dress thing but I kept my big boots on