Cindy, I have noticed the same thing just recently...it is SO UNFAIR of these people to look for that HERE! We are Sex Addicts and probably the easiest prety they can find. I have decided for myself that this is 'sacred' ground. I will do NO sexual chat here. Of course, we have to talk about sexual things to share our experiences --- but if we use words like 'orgasm or climax' instead of 'cumming' or 'i'm feeling a need' instead of 'i'm so horny' I think that will help. If anyone has any other suggestions of how to deal with the people who are using this group and the Sexual Addiction Disscussion group inappropriately I would love to hear them. My only thought is that we could simply post the names of people who have been acting inappropriately...but that may be going too far.
Cindy, thank you for posting this...let's make this a SAFE PLACE for the SAs!!!
Hugs to all ---- be strong!!
Uptownmom

I second this motion, i believe our best antidote is 2 vent in this room when it happens cuz that will put a damper on those people's games big time, remember that if someone is trying 2 use u to meet their needs that is not love at all they hate u and are trying to rob u so steer clear! do whatever it takes 2 get those pokers off ur back, that is one reason i have no pics on this site cuz it would just invite that type of activity, i think the best way 2 dump that activity is 2 discourage it all we can by posts like cindy's and others that challenge each other 2 analyze our own motives, by all means ignore those with hidden agendas, i have an excellent sixth sense 4 such nonsense and it seems people have learned that 4 the most part, i have not had any invitations of that nature for a long time but if i do they will absolutely be ignored, we who are serious control the atmosphere of these rooms more than we think, so keep talking, my supportive friends! Hugs! IMA

CINDY66 ~ as the Group Administrator I have the ability to ban people from this private group. Please email me directly the name of the offending member (DO NOT post their identity in this group thread).

Thanks for the head's up.

WARNING TO ALL MEMBERS OF "FOR ADDICTS ONLY":

Be forewarned that any attempt to pick up or solicit any form of sex from members of this group will be BANNED indefinitely from group participation.

Sincerely,

NS
For Sex Addicts Only Group Administrator

Thank you New Strength....we really appreciate your help in keeping this a safe place for all of us!!!

The offending member has been removed from our group. Please let me know the moment any member attempts to solicit sex from anyone in this group. Doing so runs contrary to the purpose of this group which is to support one another in preparing for and succeeding in our recovery attempts. ~ NS