Hey guys! I'm 26 years old and am currently a bit over 5 weeks pregnant. I have my first doctor's appointment set up for the end of this month. I was wondering if anyone else has been struggling with an unsupportive husband. My husband and I have been together for over 5 years and have been married for 1. We had always talked about having kids, but when I found out I was pregnant he is not taking it too well. Granted, we didn't really plan to have a baby at this time, but we have good jobs and a house at this point. It's only been two days since we found out but he is just under the impression that our lives are over now. I know he's just anxious and afraid, but I just wondered if anyone else's husbands reacted this way at all? Thanks! By the way my husband is 29 years old.
My husband completely reacted the same way and then oscillated between super excited and then super angry and then sad and on and on it went. It's a huge life change for both of you. He is just scared, I'm sure and needs time to process. Keep the communication flowing and I know you both will come out OK.