Family Scapegoats Community Group
This is a Group for discussing Scapegoating. The Scapegoat is often the family member who tells or acts out the truth ("the Truth Teller") regarding the family's dysfunction that no one else is prepared to acknowledge or talk about. It is this truth telling that makes them the target for carrying the blame for all the family's problems. If you are the Scapegoat...
I just ordered 4 books on scapegoating in families and I am eager to read them to learn more. I am still on touch w my family but not my father who is the narcissist and alcoholic. I'm still angry at my mother sister and brother. I want to let it go but I feel I need to learn and acknowledge scapegoating to remove past. I plan to do some EMDR a tule of PTSD treatment for this issue. I want to stop feeling a victim I have moved away from my family. I have made a success of my life. I still have trouble woth self love and relationships but that's why I keep working on this. I hope the books will be helpful!
Thank You
There is one book I found a while back I think it’s called stalking the soul
Family Scapegoat Family System,Trauma Recovery Therapist Rebecca C Mandville
https://www.amazon.com/Rejected-Shamed-Blamed-Adults-Scapegoat/dp/B08KHS41K4/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=#customerReviews
Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role: Mandeville MFT, Rebecca C: 9798680119433:
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https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/2020/08/28/5-critical-things-to-know-about-family-scapegoating-abuse-fsa/
5 Critical Things to Know About Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA) – Scapegoat Recovery Coaching
Since beginning this ‘Scapegoat Recovery’ blog last year, many readers have written me with questions regarding family scapegoating and the challenges faced when attempting to recover from it’s damaging effects. In today’s post I answer five critical questions about this most insidious form of systemic psycho-emotional abuse.
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https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/2021/12/17/when-your-family-invalidates-your-experiences-of-abuse-and-complex-trauma-c-ptsd/
When Your Family Invalidates Your Experiences of Abuse
It is difficult enough to bear the burden of traumatic childhood experiences and its long-term physical, emotional, and mental effects. For adult survivors of family scapegoating abuse (FSA), this difficulty is magnified by the fact that their reports of abuse or trauma are typically denied, dismissed, and invalidated by their family due to their being in the 'identified patient' role...
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Destructive Scapegoating In Familes:How To Heal Your Soul!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxJRpwriAv4&t=1126s
6 Strategies To Stop Being The Family Scapegoat Forever,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pl2apgKO0EA
Dysfunctional Family Survival Roles,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uc0tFX36tpg&t=869s