Lisa- I am so sorry that you are going through this. Talk about adding insult to injury, it is shameful of your ex, but SINFUL of your best friend to be involved with each other that way. Their accusing you of jealousy is just a way to shift blame to you, so they don't have to look at their own abhorent behavior.

Here's what I would do, and what I think you NEED to do to start to heal from this TRAVSTY... do not take calls, respond to texts, or otherwise communicate with either of them. When they decided to engage in this relationship, they lost the right and privilege to have you in their lives....period, end of story. Let them wallow in their misery together, they deserve each other!

We are here for you, for whatever support and comfort you need.

Love and HUGS, Liz

i agree with liz they want to be with each other let them be don't engage in there world ignore them as far as i can tell they deserve each other
i will support you in any way i can

Listen to Eg and demo - they are totally correct in their advice! Hugs and you can do this - you are not alone

thank u all..i guess i needed to hear a outside opinion on this and i've decided to take ur suggestions and just stop picking up the phone for them..it really hurts too much because i've lost my best friend..i had already left him so it really wasnt any love loss there..i do feel bad 4 her because hes such a jerk but she made the decision to be with him..but those are her choices and i would never date much less move in with any of my friends exes..its just wrong to me..well they say time heals all and deep inside i know this too shall pass..

HI MY NAME IS SHEILA SORRY ABOUT THINGS GOING ON YOUR LIFE.PRAYER ALAWAYS HELPS.WAS DIVORCED 3 YEARS AGO.WENT BACK TO FIRE BUT SOON ENDED.AND I GOT ON WITH MY LIFE.FOUND SOMEONE SPECIAL 15 MONTHS BEEN TOGETHER.YOU CAN TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.JUST TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF LOVE YOU.WELL TAKE CARE GOD BLESS.

thank u shelia,yes i am like u i do a lot of praying and u know what?..there is a lot of power in it.this week has been so much better because i do feel god has given me peace on this..its not so hurtful it actually feels like a awakening of a new part of me..a understanding less selfish person i once was..i do love myself dont get me wrong but my love now surrounds me and is enough to accept whatever and know it doesnt have to impact me..in short form..i wish them well..and im going on with my life and believe god has a plan for me..if it includes a partner great if not great also..

You are on the path of life on your terms and you have just dealt with heartache, pain and loss. You are ready to move forward though and take away the lessons, yet leave behind the pain. Protect your heart and trust in yourself. HUGE hugs!!!

It sounds like you best friend is a little insensitive. It reminded me of a statment Jennifer Aniston made in an article about Angelina Jolie.
She said, "I think someone's missing a sensitive gene". It sounds like your right up there with the stars. Good luck!