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Lilysawyer
HI Everyone,
We all know how life is hard, I was having a pretty good week. Today I woke up and just feel apprehensive. I went to my counselor on Weds, we had an okay session (also saw a groundhog outside her window, he was walking through the back parking lot, I love seeing interesting wildlife. We're in a metro area so it's not like there is a lot of woods around)
Anyway I am conflicted on two relationships. One with my nephew. I left NY when he turned 13, didn't have much contact with him. we reconnected in 2010 on Facebook. I have seen him in person twice so far. He stayed here with me in 2011 and again before Thanksgiving last year. I just have this distrust about him. I see so much of his father (my brother) in him (my brother who wants to reconnect but he is a lier and he hurt me emotionally)
Yesterday he posted on his FB about how his mother is still ill. she has some problems with her lungs. She has been a smoker and a substance abuser. She and I never got along. I certainly don't want to see her sick and I feel for my nephew going through seeing her sick. I saw my own mother sick (she passed in 1996)
I am just fearful of being hurt or getting caught up in the drama. I have plenty of drama here where I live.
I just don't know what to do anymore. And I feel lost and alone and no one to talk to about this who I really trust.
thanks for listening. (no guilt trips please. I have already done my own)
We all know how life is hard, I was having a pretty good week. Today I woke up and just feel apprehensive. I went to my counselor on Weds, we had an okay session (also saw a groundhog outside her window, he was walking through the back parking lot, I love seeing interesting wildlife. We're in a metro area so it's not like there is a lot of woods around)
Anyway I am conflicted on two relationships. One with my nephew. I left NY when he turned 13, didn't have much contact with him. we reconnected in 2010 on Facebook. I have seen him in person twice so far. He stayed here with me in 2011 and again before Thanksgiving last year. I just have this distrust about him. I see so much of his father (my brother) in him (my brother who wants to reconnect but he is a lier and he hurt me emotionally)
Yesterday he posted on his FB about how his mother is still ill. she has some problems with her lungs. She has been a smoker and a substance abuser. She and I never got along. I certainly don't want to see her sick and I feel for my nephew going through seeing her sick. I saw my own mother sick (she passed in 1996)
I am just fearful of being hurt or getting caught up in the drama. I have plenty of drama here where I live.
I just don't know what to do anymore. And I feel lost and alone and no one to talk to about this who I really trust.
thanks for listening. (no guilt trips please. I have already done my own)
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