I came home from work tonight and I could tell my son was upset about something, so I asked him what was wrong. He told me my ex told him she was thinking about moving to another state where her family lives. I told him I didn't think she would do that and not to worry about it.
While we were eating dinner I heard a car in the driveway, so I looked and it was my ex. I opened the door and she asked if I could talk for a minute. I thought she was going to tell me she was moving, so I went out and sat in her car. She started her usually blaming me for everything wrong with the kids and anything else she could think of. I asked her if that was all she wanted and she said, no she wanted to know if she got rid of the om could we be friends, because the kids need to have that feeling of family. I thought my head was going to explode, I said that would be great to bad you didn't think of this before you screwed the om while you were married to me. I told her the divorce put an end to her and I being a family. She said she wants to have things to do with the kids but the two oldest never come to her house. I told her it was because the om and his kids are always there and because the boys are embarassed by what she's done, because they hear about it all over town.
I finally heard all I could take and got out of the car and told her to stay out of my life and don't contact me again, that I was doing fine without her.
How does she think that she can lie and cheat on me and tell lies about me,and then think we can just be friends like nothing ever happened. Am I wrong for feeling like this? I wish she would straighten her life up for the sake of the kids and grandaughter, but thats between them. I don't feel like I should have to deal with her again.