Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

I learned differnt ............. and the hard way ..........
I still can't believe it.
So, I don't know ...I guess that your right , I do have to depend on myself.
I guess that I trusted in freindship to much .............
Bob
That's a very inspiring and encouraging article, thank you for posting, nohappy.
love and hugs
kamary
We DO need to be our own best friend and to trust our own judgement. I never had a problem being my own best friend, but used to question my decisions all the time (primarily due to an X who never missed an opportunity to tell me that I had no sense of money or how the "real world" operated). Crap on him!
I just ordered and received Dr. Phil's book "Life Code" and plan to start reading it this evening. It's all about how to detect and DEFLECT the toxic people in life. I am seeing it as a roadmap to avoid the traps that are out there and more a way to protect myself from being sucked in or taken advantage of in the future.