Well, I was married for 19 and together for 23years. Two beautiful kids, twins - 14 going on 20 boy and girl. Divorce was final on 3/24/08 although the crap wont be over for a longtime. We lived on a farm, his parents farm. He got the 30 acres, I got the house and 2 acres for the next 2 1/2 years at which time it will be sold and split. I still havent figured that out yet. I guess the kids will be old enough to handle the transition. Not sure. Think I should be able to stay in the house as he was the one who chose to have a girlfriend but I guess it doesnt work that way. Too tired to appeal that craziness. I am 45, started back to school part-time and have been working part-time for the last 5 years after being home for the previous 10 taking care of the kids, which I would do all over again. I am going for my RN degree, but it will take a while, half way their. I am still find myself just now coming off of autopilot and realizing that I am starting over. Any suggestions??
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