It has been awhile since I have been on here but it is also the first place I have come with my struggles. Some background history of those who don't remember me. I was married to a man for 20 years who told me one day he had unprotected sex with his cousin's wife for many years. I was shocked, devastated and blown away! We didn't have the best relationship but would never in a million years had thought he would be a cheater. I struggled for years being belittled and although I was a stay at home mom I was always told I was lazy, would never amount to anything in life! He not only destroyed our marriage but that of his cousin's. Needless to say, I had a college degree and knew I deserved better then the way I was treated. I have now been divorced for 5 years and flourishing in my job. I have two children ages 15 and 21. I have always had high morals and values and refuse to date until my daughter is raised. My son still lives at home and is attending college. My ex has had a least 8 girlfriends since our divorce that I actually know of. Anyway, my ex husband took my kids last week on a camping trip which he usually does yearly. My daughter told me that his girlfriend went with them that really has got me mad! It is in our divorce degree that he is not to have anyone stay over night while my daughter is visiting. I can't believe he took her for a full week with my kids. For the most part we have been getting along well until I found out that he took his girlfriend. So mad I can't see straight! Just needed to vent....Thank you for listening...I contacted him about this and all he could say is ok thanks! UGH!