Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

I hope this is over for you very soon and the judge gives you what you deserve.
I haven't told this story here for a long time, but here goes:
When my sister was going through divorce, she went to her local Goodwill and bought up all kinds of cheap china plates; took them home and when she was angry, she would smash them against the concrete foundation of her house. Then she picked up all the pieces and made gorgeous mosaic tabletops out of them. She even sold a bunch of them! That is the most creative way I have ever heard of to get rid of anger -- legally -- and make a profit!