Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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pemdcat 01/31/2009

I made a comment on the dating thread I had posted and I did say that M (my daughter) and I discussed the younger lady and dating.....well it was me there and I was having a GI bleed....Started sometie around 10 or so this morning....and I spent all afternoon in the ER..It seems to be healing, but I think I have an ulcer....and it is/was bleeding....they checked blood and stool and urine. Then sent me home........I have had bleeding ulcers before and then I was in ICU for a few days but I think I caught them early before they were bleeding alot....I have a follow up next week......but I am OK I will survive...if I can survive divorce this will be cake.....AJJ

KatieBee 01/31/2009

OMG honey - I am so sorry. Please be careful - do everything you have to to take care of yourself, please.

deleted_user 01/31/2009

Jack, you are in my prayers! I hope you are feeling o.k. Please keep us posted. Hugs to you!

deleted_user 01/31/2009

WHAT!! Geez...you better take it easy. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Keep us updated, K? I know that you survived your divorce, but you don't need any more pain or hurting, that was quite enough.

Big hugs and warm soup.

Chrissy614 02/01/2009

See, you got yourself all worked up about this younger woman stuff. Don't sweat the small stuff Jack. Take care of yourself first and foremost.

Hope you are feeling better already. Hugs to you my friend.

deleted_user 02/01/2009

Jack, you have a special place in my heart please take care of you!!
Much love my friend

deleted_user 02/01/2009

Jack, please take care of yourself! You need to be burning off that stress!!! Take a deep breath, relax, and take care of you!
Big hugs to you!

deleted_user 02/01/2009

Jack , it is time you take care of you these days. As you can see all of us ladies need you here with us. So stop worrying about the little things in life. Do what makes you feel good , as Chrissy said "dont sweat the small stuff". We dont want to to just survive life we want you to live it!!! We love ya sweetie take some time and relax. Hugs

deleted_user 02/01/2009

Jack:

I hope you're feeling better. Your health has to be number one! Hugs to you.

deleted_user 02/01/2009

Take care of yourself. That is nothing to mess around with. Extra prayers for you...

pemdcat 02/01/2009

All,

Thank You for your caring and support, you are part of the family, I am much better today, I feel the bleeding has stopped so the doc must have been right, I will do the follow up this week....again thank you my friends, my DS family.....AJJ

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