I've been divorced for 1 year and nine months, we weren't seperated very long just 2 months. we came to an agreement on everything and did the divorce ourselves. I see alot of people on here talking about dating and being ready to date but I'm just not feeling like I'm ready. I don't even know how I would find the time for a relationship right now,it seems like there is always something going on with the kids or grandkids or work that needs done around the house. I don't know if I'm using all that as an excuse because I'm not ready or I'm just scared of the thought of being hurt again. I tried the whole getting back together with the ex thing and I don't know if it put me back to square one of the whole healing process. I'm just worried that after 23 years in an unhealthy marriage to a woman that showed little affection towards me, but evidently had no problem showing it toward other..well i'm just afraid that I wont know how to have a healthy relationship. I just feel like I should be farther along in the healing process than I am. Should I force myself to get out there and date and see what happens? I just don't want to move to fast and hurt anybody or get hurt myself.
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