Be very wary of anything she says. She could have been fishing for any info to use against you. A lot of times an ex may show caring behavior one minute and turn around and bite you like a viper the next. My ex behaved a lot like this.

Maintain no contact as much as possible. Always remember, this "caring" woman is the same woman who filed a restraining order against you.

I'd be wary of her concern. My ex turned both my kids away with lies. He also had police visit me, for what, even the officers didn't know. Being present on the earth, who knows. Just made me more friendly with the police.

My ex exploited a health issue. My ex-best friend helped. Going through changes in life, I developed hypoglycemia. If I don't eat, I get sick to my stomach, pass out, get disoriented. I didn't know I had it until a routine physical. Ex told everyone I had a drinking problem. After 5 years of divorce, I still are judged by some family.

I feel for you. Don't think she's concerned. She's out fishing. Please take care.

Don't read anything into it. Keep moving forward. Only until she comes to you wanting reconciliation, should you go there, and even then tread lightly. She may be fishing for info or she just wants the kids to know she doesn't hate you.

As others have said don't read too much into it, take it at face value. She asked about you to your child.

I would assume she is doing what is in the best interest of the child and asking the child how you are.

For the longest time I would talk to the kids about their dad if they brought it up. If they told me that he hurt himself at work I would ask how he was.

By no means did I actually care how he was, at that point I dreamed of him being hit by a bus.

But in the best interest of the children I did talk with them about their dad because they needed me too

We may hate our exes or they have destroyed our lives, but for our children it is still their parent.

I personally think that she's just voicing pretend concern because she wants to look like a good person. I wouldn't put any stock into it and if you do, your probably setting yourself up for more disappointment.

She doesn't care - if she did, you wouldn't be divorced. It's basically as simple as that. Try to remember that and not cloud your head with hope.

From her actions, she doesn't care about you.
Words are easy, and perhaps she does care about your children, so that would explain the comments, to help them to stay healthy and cared for. At least she's getting that right, for your kid's sakes!
As for you, base your judgments on her behavior, not what she says, and give her no opportunities to act against you again.

I agree with everyone, there was that one hope of perhaps getting along, but I'm only fooling myself...

finally reached the therapist today, I have an appointment on 8/12 , still a ways away but hope he's worth the wait, he only sees people on Wednesdays which works good for me, i'll just go the gym after my see him.
think it's just him, no one to issue meds if needed, but I'm sure he knows of someone.

thanks for being here..

Glad you've got the appointment. Sometimes just knowing help's on the way can get us through another day. Thinking of you!

I agree....she wants something. Nobody changes so drastically overnight.
My ex always said something nice before his next attack. Don't trust a thing she says.
Don't get sucked in.