I feel like an idiot, if you've read some of my earlier post my ex put an ex parte on me by telling a bunch of lies. It was her way of demonizing me and making her look good. We are not to have any contact with each other, which is great because I wanted that in the first place. Well, she sent me a text this morning asking if it would be alright if we met to discuss the kids and our grandaughter. I was very leary and thought abut reporting her to the police. But I was worried that something was going on that I needed to know about. I used my sons phone to text her back and didn't text anything that would show to the police that it was me. We agreed to meet at my house in the driveway at noon. All she wanted to know was why our two oldest boys seemed so distant from her and what did I think she could do to change this. I told her we were divorced now and her relationship with the boys is between them and her. I said I thought this was something important and I took a chance getting in serious trouble even talking to her.I told her she put the ex parte on me just to make me look bad and she knew I would never hurt her. She said she did it so we would leave each other alone. I asked her is that why your in my driveway and asked her to get off my property and never talk to me again.I'm sure she had a motive of some sort, I don't think she was trying to set me up because I saved the text from her and she can get in trouble too. She gave me a letter to give to my son, I waded it up and threw it in the yard and told her if she wanted him to have a letter to give it him herself. I think she just enjoys the drama and misses having things all stirred up. I wish now that I'd called the police and reported her, I guess I can't be cold hearted like she is.