Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
so I started my new 2nd job. I had been on the job training for 3 days. Today was my first day of actual on job working. and already I am working extra hours tomorrow. the getting up at 5 to be @work by 6 is a little tiring since I am late nighter who reads til 2 or 3. not gonna do that on those day i need up early. lol plus tomorrow I work til 2/2:30 then have to leave for other job at 4. am I crazy? probably. lmao
2 weeks and counting from this coming monday. it's getting there. I hope!!! as long as the ass doesn't do something again curious how my atty handles the "surprise" booty he accumulated. Hope I get a big chunk of it! keep your fingers crossed!! almost there. almost entirely free of the ass. almost my time to be happy again. may or may not get another man but right now I am enjoying being me, with a new job and money coming in. along with his weekly support checks. at least I can bank my checks if needed.
and I will continue to sit back and watch karma take care of his sorry ass. oh yea!!
2 weeks and counting from this coming monday. it's getting there. I hope!!! as long as the ass doesn't do something again curious how my atty handles the "surprise" booty he accumulated. Hope I get a big chunk of it! keep your fingers crossed!! almost there. almost entirely free of the ass. almost my time to be happy again. may or may not get another man but right now I am enjoying being me, with a new job and money coming in. along with his weekly support checks. at least I can bank my checks if needed.
and I will continue to sit back and watch karma take care of his sorry ass. oh yea!!
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I had gone to the grocery store. When I wheeled my cartback to my car I just stool there a minute. A few spacesaway a Tesla Cyber truck was parked. I had seen it on theroad a few times for a few seconds. But not close up.It looked like it belonged to 2126 and not 2026. I wasgoing to take a picture of the car but the owners cameback and drove away. It was an ordinary middle age...
Things will work out for you....
I remember when I got my first check and it helped out a lot.
I even felt better even though I missed her ..........
I love what you said :
(and I will continue to sit back and watch karma take care of his sorry ass. oh yea!! )
Ha-Ha-.... I love it ....I love it !!!
forget the books............ get the sleep .........
timeman
Love your karma comment, too :)
love and hugs
kamary
When my idiot left and I had to work, go to school, take care of the house and at the time the bills and my daughter....I was flipping exhausted. I would go to bed by 8- 9pm and be out like a light. Weekends were spent lounging to regroup for the following week. I've never known being tired like that before.
now, 6 months later, (granted my daughter hasn't been around much)...I am much more in tune with my routine. And really, that is what it takes to function....a strict schedule. It really helps to budget time well.
In the fall, I am transfering colleges and have to drive 45min to get there. UGGHHH....I'm not looking forward to this but I've already started working out a plan. I'm taking it as a challenge. I'm determined to rise above all this and succeed if for no other reason than to silently scream to him "I DID IT WITHOUT YOU"!!!