Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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Hello. from Bob ..Timeman

Timeman
Timeman

Checking in with all my great old ...and new friends here.  I hope everyone is the best that can be.  The years are going by by. and the healing continues to get better....and easier.  Honestly , I still have some ........ohhhhhhhh, old memories that pop up once in a while.   But,.   hey I was married now to new wife for 11 years.  sometimes we argue...  most of time we laugh.   To be honest AGAIN,.   I'm not the easiest person to get along with ....I have my faults...  .like everyone else.  anyway .     I have some news for all of you. .....Right now, I'm in Warsaw POLAND with my wife visiting her family here and in two weeks I'll be going to POZNAN POLAND to look up my family tree. My great, great  Grandfather is from there. We have a family geniolgy on the internet ,but I'll be the first one ever to go back to where my family started and hopefully locate some long lost cousins..     it was something I always wanted to do. My Grandfather came here on a cattle boat.      I'm returning on Jet plane... anyway... I'll let everyone know How I make out.     got to go now..     ...So, be safe ..    keep the faith...   try to stay healthy......always.   Timeman / Bob

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
That's amazing. Someone in my family did my geneology as well. It's always fun to see where we came from.

I am in the process of taming my own ego which will help me avoid all arguments in the future....It's a long process.

Glad to see you again. Hope the trip goes well! Would love to hear about it.
amazinggrace15
amazinggrace15
Great to hear from you Bob. Enjoy your trip and hope you find some cousins!
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Marie
Moscato
Moscato
Hope you had a wonderful trip! What a great opportunity to go to Poland and to explore your family's history. Let us hear about it when you're back. Stay well.
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