I live on support only, a very small amount. I'm 65. I have had to have a roommate (just a friend) in order to live someplace. My daughter just got married and bought a house. I have lived with her off and on since my divorce and love her more then life itself. I'm the one who lived 30 in an abusive marriage and have PTSD.
My roommate and I are moving next month and the only place we can find that is nice and within our price range is 150 miles away from my daughter. We both want land, trees, look out the window and see deer. So we found it. It broke my heart to live so far from my daughter. But I love the outdoors.
Now she tells me.....there is a place very near her, a very nice house with a normal back yard and she is willin to put in $200 each month so my roommate and I can afford it.
Because she is going to have my first grandchild next year and wants me near. OMG!!!
My roommate refuses to go back to the city. I totally understand. I hate the city too. But this is so hard. Obviously without my roommate I cannnot afford to live at either place so I have no choice but to move to the country which is what i want.....but finding out my daughter wants me, her mom, near her when she has the baby is tearing me apart.
I feel awful about this. My daughter is all the family I have. So I thought maybe driving down 1 week a month would be a good idea. Any other ideas????
he got to go inside the jewelery store where I got a pin put into my watchband.....when I stopped to get some sausage for myself and sister from a German sausage shop I left the triangle window in back seat where he rides open and used the remote starter to keep the car running with no key in ignition to allow the AC to keep car cool for him...was inside less that four minutes....car runs over...