Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
When i am finally divorced i'm going to put every dime into a very small new home.. Because mortgage payments will always be out of my reach i don't want to worry about one. Very small because i have to think about the price of utility bills and property tax.
For me that is the best plan i can come up with so far as being able to survive on down the road.
You might find an online CD that might be paying more than .15%. I Have a Smarty Pig account online that is paying .70% and check out ally or HSBC. The online banks are paying more interest than the local banks. They are FDIC insured.
If it was me, I would try and buy a home - a small, cheap one perhaps?
Best bet is to consult with a financial planner! There are also specialty folks now who are "Divorce Financial Planners" and from what I understand, they are very well versed in how to spread your settlement out over a number of different investments that you mention. The hope is always maximum growth, but their focus is also on steady and secure.
I just had my year-end meeting with my financial advisor and upon his recommendation, I tweaked a few things. So far, the most fruitful investment I have made (and this goes back to 2003) was in U.S. Treasury "I" Bonds. I bought five of them at face value ($5,000 each). They only GO UP in value over the 30-year maximum life, yet they can be cashed in at any time. Unfortunately, I think the government realized that they were "too good a deal" and I'm not sure they offer them anymore.
Home ownership COULD BE a good thing for you, despite your fears. A financial planner can help you with this. When you own your home, you get a lot of nice tax write-offs which would lower your tax profile (read: less income taxes). I could never see the point of renting -- all that money you just give to someone else each month -- but I know there are times when it is most practical to rent.
Again, talk to at least one certified financial planner. Most banks have one on staff (around here, they are called Consierge Services) and remember you are not obligated to deal with that particular bank or buy or use any of their services. Just get as much information as you need and then decide.
Good Luck!