Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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CowgirlKathi
CowgirlKathi
I don't know HOW I found this website, but somehow stubled onto it today. While I am long past the business of my lying, cheating, cowardly X, this article in particular could be of infinite help to any and all of the "newbies" around here.

http://chumplady.com/2012/05/i-just-discovered-i-was-cheated-on-now-what/

The main URL for the site is:

www.Chumplady.com

and the catch-phrase is "Leave A Cheater - Get A Life"
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Hi Kathi, I have read some of it. I cannot get over the fact that all have ordered the same manual, Cheaters are always Right. I will continue reading it later. Thank you for posting this. hugs
1Timeforhim
1Timeforhim
I love her got her book did I tell you about it ? I get her daily emails she rocks and her book is great!!!
CowgirlKathi
CowgirlKathi
I don't know why this topic isn't getting much activity when it would be extremely helpful to so many....
tobywinn
tobywinn
Amen! Learn to protect yourself. Knowledge is power! Say No to cheating and choose a "better" life.

There's a reason cheaters are "an equal opportunists" , meaning they treat everyone equally as BAD . There's a reason you'll forever need to keep a watchful eye on everything , all the time, what they do and say !!!
cmonge
cmonge
She's a genius
kamary
kamary
I have seen this site earlier in my internet roamings and found her articles very helpful and uplifting. Good idea to post the link, CGK.

love and hugs
kamary
dairytech
dairytech
Great link Kathi
1Timeforhim
1Timeforhim
Yah it would hhhhmmm maybe I will comment and post something on the infidelity website as well....
1Timeforhim
1Timeforhim
I posted it on the infidelity website as a please read men and women both !!!!
texlube
texlube
Been periodically visiting her site for months! Such good advice and I love her sassy, no nonsense approach.
iammine
iammine
"Infidelity is an act of aggression" I LOVE that line. So true. Great find Kathi!
iammine
iammine
OMG I just HAVE to add that Ive been laughing my butt off reading some of her posts! She tells it like it is!

She makes cheater out to basically be SUB-human, which I find hilarious!

I urge anyone who's been cheated on to read this blog - especially her answers on the "Ask Chump Lady" tab
KRKing911
KRKing911
This was awesome! Thanks for posting Kathi.
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
I looked at the site--seems like the cheaters continue to follow the same playbook.
1Timeforhim
1Timeforhim
I loved the post today its how we are to blame I laughed my ass off...........check it out hilarious
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