Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
Again, I have no need to leave my house to get crap thrown at me.
Exass, yet again, is spewing his trashy mouth to all who will listen. First off--I blocked him and anyone connected to him (friends, relatives etc.) from FB. Loving it! So peaceful. hmmmm
Well, a friend I used to work with says he's coming around the workplace and chit chatting with his co-ho who works there. Telling her I have turned both sons against him (hmm super power?) and that I told my brother (who is 54) that he is not allowed to talk to my ex. (wow! real super-power!) Plus, supposedly he's posting things on this co-ho's fb to tick me off. Really? Why waste the energy? I have you both blocked!!! Idiot....
Then his daughter calls. Haven't spoken to her in months. She asked how I was. I told her I'm great. Just get her daddy-dear to leave me alone. From what she says, he's still in his own little world, believing his own little lies.
here's the question---If his life is so happy, why is he bugging me? Why bother with little fb drama to tick off the ex? Why moan about your sons you left hanging with bills cause you didn't man up like ordered? Why is there a why to begin with?????
I don't bother him. I have no complaints. Lately he's consistent with alimony. I am living my life as I see fit. Absolutely NO contact with him. I barely talk to his daughters. And we don't talk about him when I do. He's a small filament of my mind. I want to be the same in his.
I took care of the recent issues. The credit report is fine now. There are no other loans in my name. I see a better future. A much more peaceful one. If only I could erase this smudge on my horizon. lol
Just to clarify:
I did NOT turn my sons against him. That was his success on its own. They are 28/26 so perfectly able to decide who they want in their lives.
I do NOT contact him in any way. Any questions I have I contact my lawyer. That usually involves hearing crap he's planning. I am prepared you might say.
I am no longer his wife. Concentrate on her bubba! You picked lucky #3 so work it.
Why is he even in MY neighborhood? Is he having melancholy feelings about our life here? too bad!
Okay, again, rant over. But if anyone needs my super powers, feel free to let me know. lol
Exass, yet again, is spewing his trashy mouth to all who will listen. First off--I blocked him and anyone connected to him (friends, relatives etc.) from FB. Loving it! So peaceful. hmmmm
Well, a friend I used to work with says he's coming around the workplace and chit chatting with his co-ho who works there. Telling her I have turned both sons against him (hmm super power?) and that I told my brother (who is 54) that he is not allowed to talk to my ex. (wow! real super-power!) Plus, supposedly he's posting things on this co-ho's fb to tick me off. Really? Why waste the energy? I have you both blocked!!! Idiot....
Then his daughter calls. Haven't spoken to her in months. She asked how I was. I told her I'm great. Just get her daddy-dear to leave me alone. From what she says, he's still in his own little world, believing his own little lies.
here's the question---If his life is so happy, why is he bugging me? Why bother with little fb drama to tick off the ex? Why moan about your sons you left hanging with bills cause you didn't man up like ordered? Why is there a why to begin with?????
I don't bother him. I have no complaints. Lately he's consistent with alimony. I am living my life as I see fit. Absolutely NO contact with him. I barely talk to his daughters. And we don't talk about him when I do. He's a small filament of my mind. I want to be the same in his.
I took care of the recent issues. The credit report is fine now. There are no other loans in my name. I see a better future. A much more peaceful one. If only I could erase this smudge on my horizon. lol
Just to clarify:
I did NOT turn my sons against him. That was his success on its own. They are 28/26 so perfectly able to decide who they want in their lives.
I do NOT contact him in any way. Any questions I have I contact my lawyer. That usually involves hearing crap he's planning. I am prepared you might say.
I am no longer his wife. Concentrate on her bubba! You picked lucky #3 so work it.
Why is he even in MY neighborhood? Is he having melancholy feelings about our life here? too bad!
Okay, again, rant over. But if anyone needs my super powers, feel free to let me know. lol
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Sounds like he just spins and stews and rants in his own creation of a cesspool. He created it, continues to add to it, and can't stand living in it. I feel sad for the man, it must be awful to be so miserable that he has to expend that much energy trying to keep from facing what he himself has done!
Living your life well is the best revenge.... well said Knuckle. Not only that, but living well (and sane!) is the best way for the world to see just how unstable he is. Keep your head up, your heart light, and your sense of humor sharp!
Good on you, superwoman. Let him have his rages all to himself.
love and hugs
kamary