Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
Had a bad week,was meant to be a good 1 as i got the week off work,anyway just to updatew u on whats going on in my life,after he came down last week drunk and being abusive,ive had the txts saying hes gonna get full custody of my son and stuff like that hes gonna stop paying me so my bills wont be paid.He went to his solicitor monday and im just waiting for the letter to be sent to my solicitor so i no whats gonna happen i dont wanna contact him myself.1 thing thats really made me laugh is what a good dad he is all of a sudden he txt my son and daughter everynight somin he never did b4 last week,inviting my middle daughter up there for a night with her boyfriend.My oldest daughters b/f works with him so she is stuck in the middle poor cow cos her b/f is on his side and cant see whats hes doing where as she can.I gotta start my new job in 2 weeks ill be working full time somin i havent done for 19 years,so looks like we will be going down the court road,gonna cost alot of money and hassle,hassle i dont or my kids need we were divorced in april lol and its not got any better.I really need your surport.Thanks sue
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Good luck with your new job. It's scary starting a new job and fulltime after 19 years, but you've proven what a strong woman you are and this is just another step up the ladder of freedom.
If you are already divorced since April - what is the solicitor for and why are you headed back to court? Just wondering how that works.
Hang in there Sue - brighter days are coming - eventually they just have to. Hugs to you.