He said that he is sponging off of me. I offered to help him I want to help him get on his feet with social security, I don't feel like he is . He needs some self esteem and his court date needs to be soon. I am unsure of how to help him feel better. He cried and could not contain his tears. I want to make him feel better. I have no idea what to do he has 7 months approximately left. It has already been about 10. They give people 18 months for courtdates.