Dealing with Grief Community Group
This is a new group to help people come to terms with losing someone. We need to work together to come to terms with everything.

Its been over three years since the horrible day I learned my daughter had died. Her and her sisters were adopted. I wasn't even told my daughter had been air lifted to the children's hospital for a severe brain injury I had to find out via facebook!! The adopted parents would not allow me to come to the hospital and after two days pulled the plug and my daughter passed away. I wasn't allowed to attend the funeral in fact was told if I showed up I would be arrested. About a week after the funeral I get a call from a homicide detective informing me that there was a ongoing investigation into the circumstances surrounding my daughters death. I was already a wreck and when I learned of this it just spiraled everything else and I went to the deepest depression I had ever been in. My Lilly was just five years old and she died a month before her sixth birthday just heartbreaking. About 7 months go by and they finally have the autopsy results and tox screen back. Of course I wasn't allowed to have copies not that I wanted them though that would be to much to take in. After they got those back I'm watching the news the next day and I see where the adopted mother was arrested for 2cnd degree murder and 5 other charges on my oldest daughter that she killed and 7 other charges on my youngest two daughters for different types of abuse and neglect. This woman is facing 11 felony charges and she still has not been sentenced . she was granted bond a year ago and has been out since. I even saw her at a local store and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do to contain my emotions. Its just not right why is she allowed to be out walking the streets like she did nothing wrong? She recently had court at the start of this month and of course got it rescheduled this makes about the 11th time in one year she has gotten it postponed. May 1st marked three years since my daughters passing and we still are no further than we were to begin with..I have no faith in the legal system anymore its just one big joke. I also learned that if they wouldn't have showed up that day and found my daughter that my other two probaly wouldn't have made it one more week and i would have lost all three of my children to death. Apparently she was starving all of them and abusive. This sounds like a horrible movie or nightmare every time I tell it but that's my story and its 100 percent truth. No parent should loose a child.especially not to someone who promised to raise them and protect them for you. 2014 was the worst year of my life and I relive that horrible time every day. I just want my daughter to have justice is that so bad??
Again, I am so sorry.