Dealing with Grief Community Group

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I'm really struggling with my dad's death

jordan-00
jordan-00

my dad died month after my 9th birthday, I'm now 17 , 18 next month and it' killing me that he is not here. his death was so unexpected , from a car accident. I can still remmeber that day we got the phone call , but everything from before that day is a blur , I can' remember anything from my childhood , I can't even remember my dad and it' hurting me soo muxh 

veggiequeen
veggiequeen
I lost my mom unexpectedly when i was 15.In my case, we were in the next room when we heard what sounded like whimpering . My dad would find her holding her head in pain, then losing consciousness to an aneurism. they pulled the plug the next day as there was no brain function. i would remember her as she was taken out of our home...unconscious

I worried I was forgetting all abut her. As time went on and I did actually, finally grieve, there would come a time when I can talk about her with another family member (sibling, dad, aunt or cousin) I could begin to remember ( and be reminded) of a past memory).

Do not feel guilty or worry....you won't forget him .The memories will come.
I send my thoughts and prayers to you .