Dating after Divorce Community Group

After divorce it's hard to jump back into the dating scene. This group will help support each other as we get back out there in the dating world.

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sue38
sue38
IM just after some advice,been divorced since april,have a man in my life but hes there for me not to be aq dad to my kids,he comes here and is very nice to them chats with them and stuff but my ex cant understand why he doesnt want to move in or we buy somewhere and be a happy family like he is,hes making my life so hard,cos he pays all the bills and he thinks that gives him the right to dictate to me stuff any help would be great
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm not quite sure what you want to know. But here goes. I think your X just wants to rub it in about what he pays for and want's to know when the new man will move in so he won't have to pay the bills anymore. As for your new man, you already know that he's just there for you and not the kids. I've found that if a man is there just for you, that's ok for awhile, but when he becomes serious, then your kids come first, always.

Been there, done that. Hope this helps.

Good luck.
Mary Beth
deleted_user
deleted_user
Like the lady say's been there and done that and in the end if the children don't come first then it is simply a no go.A man must be able to accept children as their own or you will never be happy,beleive me,i know
,it is like that old line"but we can still be friends" not!