Hi good people out there !!!

I am not an expert, but i simply love writting. Yes i do.
I can write all day.

How do you people out there react to any problem that might come your
way?
Do you fight or flee? Do u pretend like there is no problem and just ignore everything?

When i am in a problem i acknowledge i am in a problem.
I try not to ignore my problems. I try to fight them as soon as they arise.
I have learnt a thing or two , when i am dealing with a problem
I find it might easier to concentrate on solving a problem than cry about it all day long.
Of course, there comes days when you are worn out and you cry in a corner.
It is called being human.
The trick is when faced with a problem,do not concentrate on the problem it self but rather the solutions. Write down multiple solutions...
Just write down whatever comes to mind
Rate them if you have to , from the best option to the least one
Try them out and never give up if the first one does not work
Move on to the next one, even if it means doing it a hundred times over,
just do it , that is called determination
If you tried something out and it did not work that is called a lesson learnt. Of course you grow along the way
You will be amazed at the end of the day what you have learnt.
The toughest lessons learnt in life are learnt through pain.
Failing is when one comes to a stand still and stop trying
You can try even up to 100 times even more, that is the sprit
Giving up is not an option
Not at all
We are all fighters who are destinied to win
We need to be focused
Keep your head up, NEVER down whatever the situation
Tell yourself i can do this, and you truly can.

The toughest lesson in life are learnt through pain.
Let me share with you a short story:
There was once a man who lost both his legs in car accident. It was terrible he ended up in a wheel chair for the rest of his life.
It happened in the prime of his life, at the age of 27. He lost his job ,
his wife of two years left him. That was a sad story. But the young man did not give up. He asked himself, from here where to?
It did not take him long he took a pen and a paper he wrote down his feelings. He started writing poetry based on his emotion, whenever he is down, he wrote about his best days in life. Little did he know that his work will earn him a prize. His work was published.
He wrote the book about his situation. The young man who was an engineer did not know that he was a talented writer. It was only after the car accident that he made such a discovery. What a brave man.
I want each of us to follow such a good example
Problems should not overcome us.
Lets make something out of every problem that comes our way
Lets not be in a corner and cry why me???
Why did this happen to me??
Rather say to yourself : How do i get out of this? From here what is next?
How do i solve this? How do i make this better?
It does not matter how long it will take you, what matters the most is:
are you doing something about it.

Problems are there,
You might be in debt, most people experience this in life.
Do not dig your self deeper.
Revisit your spending, search for books that mention real people who where once in debt and made it clean. start selling small staff to earn money
It is not the end of the world
You can still work out a solution
The time is now
Do it now.

Start that gym : the most encouraging way to loose weight, Let your health be the main reason behind this and then looks be the second.
That is what i told myself and it worked. Of course looking good is equally important. I put up a notice that says : HEALT CANNOT BE BOUGHT, GO TO THE GYM,EAT HEALTHLY, REDUCE STRESS!!!. I put that sign up on the freeze, in my bathroom, in my bedroom. It was worthy it and it worked.
Whenever i did not want to go to the gym and i read that sign it encouraged me, it was every where in my house...
There were many times when i will go to the gym, eat healthly and come home and weigh myself just to see i have not lost any weight. At first i used to feel bad and then i told myself u dont have to be hard on your self. I started being positive. Normally in life we want things to happen over night, that is not the way it is.

Here i am sort of just saying, it is always encouraging to have a reason for what we do rather then just following the crowd.

Finally, let us not concentrate on our problems but on the solutions.
Concentrating on the problem actually worsens the problem.
Lets think SOLUTION, SOLUTION...
We can all do something about our problems
Lets start today
Do not worry if you fail, just try again.
Just lift yourself up and try again.
All the people on this site you are all Winners...